Common Married Men

Yes, Muslim men can have 4 wife in his relationship. But doesn't mean when Islam allowed u to polygamy and u take this oppurtunity & treat it as ur satisfactions instead of making another level with Allah. Once u commit in a relationship, u need to be truthful & sincere towards ur wife and ur wife to be. U can't have any secrets between them. It's unfair for both of them. I know it is easier said and done. But let me asked u guys a question. What is ur intentions towards them? Take it as a challenge in life? Just to be in ur comfort zone? A distractions from ur married life? Just to have an affair? Creating disturbance around family members? Or just being men with full of It's unfair for both of them. Do u ever care how they felt? Are u just being a dumb ego that ur mind said that "it's ok for men to be ego"?! If u are, than ur just a freaking selfish. U can't juggle around ur responsibility towards ur wife and ur partner. If it is true that ur in love "AGAIN" with another women beside ur wife. Tell both of them the truth. It takes time for women to swallow. But eventually if ur wife loves u and understand ur needs. In Shaa Allah is going to be great. But if ur just playing around with a young girl heart. U just being foolish. Do u even know that for a women heart takes time to recover? Just stop being selfish dumb ego. Please I beg u. It hurts my eyes and heart just to see u guys playing a fool with them. Have u ever give a taught that maybe one day, ur mom, sisters, ur cousins and whoever women that bound and relates to u and get played by guys like u? U will see them getting hurts. Please and do understand ur partner. What is their needs all that. But mostly u shud know that we men are as a leader of the family. So lead like a great leader. Not like a dumb leader. Open ur eyes to see what's happening. Open ur brain to think wisely. Open ur heart to understand throughly.